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To ask yourself about your partner

If someone said you were like your partner, would this be a compliment, why?
Are you able to be your unapologetic self around your partner?
Are you truly fulfilled or just less lonely?
Are you in love with your partner as a whole or only a part of them?
Would you want your existing or imaginary child to date someone like your partner?

To ask yourself after a date

What side of me did they bring out?
How did my body feel during the date?
Do I feel more energised or de-energized than I did before the date?
Is there something about them I'm curious about?
Did they make me laugh?
Did I feel heard?
Did I feel attractive in their presence?
Did I feel captivated, bored or somewhere in between?

To ask on your date

What was the relationship with your mother like? (Attachment type indicator)
What was your childhood like?
How do you want someone to make you feel?
What is your love language?
What do you find most attractive about a guy/ girl?
Who are the special people in your life?
What is your friend circle like? Small/ Big.
What made you interested in going out with me?
What are you looking for?
Do you have siblings? (if yes how many and age)
How long was your longest relationship? Why did it end?
What would your dream vacation be?